Sole Mates

I heard Gary Thomas on Haven Today this morning.  He's the author of Sacred Marriage and other titles dealing with relationships.  Here are some thoughts from today's program:

*What if God designed marriage to make us holy, not happy?
*Good marriage isn't something you find; it's something you make, and it takes time. 
*Instead of looking for a soul mate, we need a sole mate.  It involves walking out a biblical love over time.


Gary has a great article here on sole mates.  Not only does he offer wise counsel for people who are looking for a spouse, he also offers insights into living the life of love in our marriages.